Coaching
This isn't self-help. This is self-work with support.
The way our lives turn out is not an accident. If you're living day to day, you're always in a hurry. The amount of work isn't what really matters. It's what the work is going towards.
Pausing and taking stock, will allow you to better consider your next move and can help to ensure you address not only your external circumstances but also to do the inner work.
A three staged-model that focuses on exploration, identifying goals, and action planning.
What is the current reality? What's working and what isn't working in your life?
Do you have a vision for your future?
If you goal is to be a happier / confident / successful, then what do you have do? Change usually involves action.
Wait, but why?
Your best days are ahead